I may have mentioned before that Alexander is shy. We had no doubt when he was four/five that if we had thrust him into a traditional school, he would not have reacted well. Another facet of our "go with the flow" approach to both parenting and education is that we never pushed him into extracurricular activities. Kathleen has been in dance for years and Grace started in the fall, but Alexander always declined our offers of classes he might enjoy. That changed at the end of last summer when HE decided to take gymnastics.
Except for the lack of boys in his class, Alexander has loved gymnastics. The place I chose teaches Acrogymnastics (think acrobatics). They focus more on using the body to perform tricks, rather than lots of equipment. Alexander has happily attended his classes, practiced his moves at home, shown off to relatives, and all around been a great success.
The great Let Our Kids Decide When They Are Ready for things expirement culminated last week when Alexander's class had an exibition to mark the end of the semester. My shy son, who has always hated to be put in the spotlight (unless he wanted to be there) was amazing. Group display? No problem. Solo trick of skill? Breezed through. Feat of daring? Stood on his coach's shoulders as calmly as could be. This was all with an audience of at least twenty adults staring at him.
It felt good.
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